When you want to get to know a girl you like it is natural to worry about what you should and shouldn’t say. You’ll want to make a positive and lasting impression so knowing the right flirty things to say to a girl will help you build rapport between you.
The following 20 flirty things to say will help you make a connection. Your personality, charm and positive outlook will ensure that you achieve your desired outcome.
1. Hey you!
The way you start your flirty text message should be fun and friendly. Add a smiley face emoticon to open up the flirty communication.
2. Good morning gorgeous/beautiful etc.
Sending a complimentary text at the start of the day means you’ll be on her mind as she gets into the swing of her day. Another great flirty thing to say to a girl is: “I know you have a busy day ahead of you, but could you add me on to your to-do list?
3. I just woke up and you’re already on my mind
This is guaranteed to put a smile on her face!
During the day you can randomly text her: Hey! Stop thinking about me!
This cheeky text is the perfect flirty thing to say to a girl because it ensures you stay in her thoughts.
4. What kind of trouble have you been causing since I last saw you?
Being cheeky will encourage her to get flirty. Ask cheeky open questions to make sure you get a response.
5. Fancy an adventure?
Dates aren’t limited to going to the movies or out for dinner. Spark her interest by inviting her out for some spontaneous fun.
6. If you could have one wish what would it be?
Introduce this question once your text messages are flowing. Her response should inspire you to take your flirting to another level.
7. I’m trying on this new outfit but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts?
If you’re getting ready for your date get flirty by asking her to tell you what she’s thinking.
8. What’s the sexiest outfit I could wear to turn you on?
Asking for her opinion in a flirty way will ensure that she is exciting about meeting up with you. Send responses like: “oooh I like the sound of that!” to encourage her flirtatious banter even more.
9. Send me a picture!
Send a smiley emoticon at the end of your special request, so that she’s not sure if you’re serious or joking. If she sends you a pic you have permission to turn up the heat and her interest.
10. I have a problem… I can’t stop thinking about you.
At first she will think you have a genuine dilemma. When she sees she is the object of your concern she’ll want to remain your problem.
11. Let’s play 20 questions…
This gives you 20 opportunities to ask random stuff that gives you answers to things you want to find out about her. Get creative with the flirty things you say to a girl and take advantage of the perfect chance to ask her out on a date.
12. You looked so beautiful last night/yesterday…
“That you made me forget my pick up line!” Cute and corny, but she’ll think you’re sweet for saying so.
13. Guess what I’m doing?
(Your response): Texting the hottest/sexiest/loveliest girl in the world!
14. Would you rather…?
When you’re working on building chemistry this is a good text game to play. Start by asking easy things like: “would you rather watch a movie or go out for dinner?” and take this in whatever flirty and suggestive direction feels right.
15. Texting stories
Start the text game by sending a sentence and letting her complete it. Take it in turns to continue the story. Make the flirty story as exciting and naughty as you like.
16. Role playing games
Get creative by introducing a role playing game that allows you both to take turns making up an erotic story involving characters.
17. Truth or dare
Truth or dare is the perfect game to play to reduce inhibitions. Text a question or a dare and ask her to respond to it by acting it out and sending a pic or answering the question.
18. The Confessions game
Choose a topic and take turns to confess a deep secret about it. This will help you get to know her on a more intimate level.
19. Would you rather…?
Start with easy things to do and build up to getting flirty and romantic with your alternative choices.
20. I’ve been thinking about you all day
Every girl likes to know she is on your mind. The best flirty things to say to a girl include anything that gets her thinking about you and her together.
Add something like: “You make me feel so (fill in the blank).” This let’s her know how you really feel about her and encourages her to share her feelings about you.